Rejection dating world
I was walking home after dropping J off at her friend’s house.Other than some chores, I did not have much to do that evening.“Who wants to waste time with losers who won’t even be decent lays. In N’s mind, it is perfectly okay for a man to not feel attracted to a woman for a variety of reasons even if she were considered good looking by most standards (my friend K comes to mind as an example).However, the manner in which he extracts himself from the situation says everything about what kind of man he is – namely if he is self-assured, confident and most importantly virile.N loves guys who don’t ask to see a picture (are thrilled if she sends them some), are curious to learn what she is all about, enjoy talking to her and set up a date just to get to know her better. I tell N, may it’s not men – it’s all those pesticides at work feminizing them.This is the kind of man who makes her want to look her absolute best on their date - exceed any expectations he may have had. Maybe we reason, they are going through this transitional phase when they are losing touch with the masculine in them but have not become fully feminine yet.
When conversation turned to relationships (she has recently parted ways with a boyfriend of a couple of years), N mentioned some of her challenges.
It was not so long ago, that my friend K, who moonlights as a model, was told by a guy that he "felt no chemistry" seeing her picture.