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But, more specifically...1) Be as funny as you can, as often as you can throughout your profile and in the messages you send. If you read 100 girls' profiles, you'll see some variation of the phrase, "I love to laugh" or "I love a good sense of humor" about 700 times. Be funny as much as you possibly can, but MOST IMPORTANTLY, try not to sound like you're trying too hard. It's hard to put into words guys who are obviously trying too hard; it's one of those things you can only call out when you see it. Don't sound like you're trying too hard.2) Never describe your qualities. Those are descriptions, and they are meaningless, because anybody can say them.The alternative is to demonstrate/illustrate/show your sense of humor or your sense of adventure with a funny joke, witty line, or story about something adventurous you did. So instead of, "I have a good sense of humor," you should say something like, "If George Carlin and Mitch Hedberg had a love child, I would be the result. I've been on more dates than I can count, kiss closed a zillion, f-closed a zillion, and had a few meaningful relationships all from online dating.I left a comment in another thread saying I do alright, and subsequently have been getting PMs asking for advice, so here you go.edit: you can get plenty of advice and profile critiques over at /r/okcupid and /r/pof My advice for all profiles in general consists of these main points: The persona that does best (for me) is whimsical and funny with just a sprinkle of seriousness. It actually might help to get drunk and watch some stand-up comedy before you write your profile to put yourself in a whimsical/funny mood. Drinking will make you whimsical, and stand-up comedy will make you a little funnier. It means don't use adjectives or broad, vague descriptors like, "I'm funny" or "I'm adventurous" or anything that literally any other guy could say.You may now see our list and photos of women who are in your area and meet your preferences.Again, please keep their identity a secret Click on the "Continue" button search with your zip/postal code.I don't even know if you think you are funny or adventurous. Bottom line is: any guy can describe qualities, but only a handful of guys can paint the picture of those qualities.Girls are going to like the latter guy better every time.
Chuck Palahniuk has a good essay on how to write with engrossing detail.This goes for your profile and your messages, unless you think you're REALLY REALLY REALLY interesting and funny.