Dating for a month
Mutual dreams of living in Europe lend to compatibility, while disagreement over the institution of marriage may be a deal-breaker.
The Santa Clara University Wellness Center also identifies a positive outlook on life in general to be an important quality to seek in a partner.
I still have work, hobbies, friends and family to deal with.
This knowledge can help you understand your compatibility, the likelihood of a future together and even assess your safety.
Think about it — we’re both trying to impress each other, which means trying to be our best 100% of the time. I don’t like feeling as if I have to either make it or break it in just three months time. I realize his friends and family are going to talk about me after meeting me, but couldn’t they at least wait until I’m out of earshot. They start whispering when they think I’m not looking, but I still have ears.
I feel like a prized show dog being paraded in front of the judges. It’s like we’re constantly studying and analyzing one another. Since we’re trying to be our best selves, I’m more curious than ever to know what he’s hiding. We might be together, but we’re still working on that initial trust.
Take note of any diagnosed and treated sexually transmitted infections, as well as consistency of protected sex.
Also be aware of your partner's past experiences in general.
I think I’d rather just write up a book report of my highs, lows and need to know topics and get it all over with at one time.